I have been very quiet on here the last few weeks, well really it’s been a month. I’ve been majorly slacking over here and there are a few reasons why. Though I do not need to justify my lack of writing to anyone, I want people to know that I love keeping and writing a blog, but I am a busy mom and there are seasons where saying nothing seems to be better.
Learning to cohabitate Again
Deployments are a messy thing for families. We have spent the last 8 weeks learning to live with each other again. Greg has been re-acclimating to the volume that is a house with three little boys in it. I am trying to re-motivate myself to be a domestic goddess though that is such a tiny, rather unenjoyable, aspect of my identity. We have added extracurriculars for the big boys. They wanted to do cub scouts and jiu-jitsu so that is consuming our weeks right now. We are desperately trying to make new friends since we are living in a new place that is unfamiliar to us.
What’s New with Me? Well, I am really busy growing. Growing as a mother, wife, spiritually (as there are more Baha’i members in this region of N.C.), trying to settle a home that is rather small for all of us, juggling visitors, holidays, and upcoming trips. Mostly, I’ve been writing elsewhere. For the last year, I have been writing for Daily Mom Military Magazine. I have a weekly column that keeps me very busy, but on top of that I have been doing Holiday gift guide reviews for them and that has taken up a large part of my “extra” time since November. I have also been shoveling myself, the children and the dog back and forth to overseas clearance doctor appointments.
What’s New with Greg? Greg has started what they call the FRD. Basically, it’s a miniature flight school to switch from one flight platform to a new one. In his case, he has gone from the Huey Helicopter to the C130 Hercules. What that means is he is studying hard and long hours on top of doing an online school program called EWS (Expeditionary Warfare School). He is very busy. Like woa busy. Of course, on the weekends I keep him very busy as well.
What’s up with the sudden D.C. trip?
Well, a dear friend of mine (also a bridesmaid in our wedding) is having her first child here in the D.C. area. She has asked me to doula and encapsulate for her so the kids and I are renting a one bedroom apartment in the D.C. area for two weeks! So far the weather has been quite kind to us for D.C. in February. I’m hopeful that we will have a new baby to ooo and ahhh over soon (any day).
What’s up with the sudden India Trip?
A similar situation, a friend asked and I said “yes.” It goes back much farther than that, but an old college dance partner of mine as requested my presence in India. Therefore, the kids and I are going for a quick trip that will hopefully curb my international craving until later this year. I will say that saying yes to friends and being a better friend was my main New Year focus phrase. I am really bad at falling into the “out of sight out of mind” friendship category. I also love my friends tremendously, but I can’t always find the energy or time to call so 2019 has presented me with two opportunities to serve my friends better and I’ve taken them.
Financially, I cannot say yes to this extreme any more this year, but I hope that the acts are noticed and the memories made until I am able to serve them again someday. I am trying hard to invest more in the people that are already in my life and spend less time trying to market my friendship capabilities to new prospects.
I hope that Winter’s time of rest and hibernation has brought you a clearer mental state, a better understanding of how to reach your goals for 2019 and most importantly, perspective.